The Gay Barn presents
Black & Blue Friday
SOLD OUT Friday November 28th, 8pm-12am
at Sub Rosa, a private dungeon playspace
*Address is shared 24 hours before the event
The Gay Barn presents Black & Blue Friday, a play party for kinky dykes and the queers who love them.
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Fuck Black Friday! Crapitalism messing with your head? Maybe fuck your friends instead! Don’t shop all day, try impact play. This Black & Blue Friday we gather to give thanks (and spanks) for kinky dykes!​​
This event is exclusively for dykes and dyke-adjacent queers (of the non cis-male variety), who are 21 and older.
TERFs, SWERFs, and zesty straights need not apply. We do not tolerate racism, transphobia, or fatphobia at our events.
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If that sounds like a good fit to you, keep reading … the application form is waiting for you at the bottom!
Venue Info
Black & Blue Friday takes place in Sub Rosa, a private playspace stocked with fetish furniture and gear. We will have ample room to play at multiple stations, including a bondage bed, horizontal cage, restraint wall and more. There is a bathroom with stall shower.
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The location is in SE Portland, and the address will be shared with ticket holders 24 hours before the event.
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Please note: The Gay Barn has special access to Sub Rosa because Emma is their Ops Manager. This is a unique opportunity to attend a play party in Sub Rosa with ticket sales open to the public (after vetting).
Registration Process
The first step to attend Black & Blue Friday is completing the vetting form at the bottom of this page. We will respond as soon as possible with an invitation email. Add TheGayBarn@proton.me to your contacts to make sure it doesn't end up in the spam folder!
The invitation email will contain a promo code to access the ticket sale page on Forbidden Tickets. Once you have paid in full, your spot is reserved!
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If you know dykes who might be interested in this party, please direct them to this page! No ticket sales are available without prior vetting.
Cancellation Policy
All tickets are non-refundable and non-transferable. That means, there are no refunds for cancellations at any time, and you may not transfer your ticket to another person.
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COVID and Safety
All attendees are required to provide a negative rapid COVID test taken on the day of the event. Please stay home if you have been exposed to COVID or are experiencing symptoms of illness.
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We encourage the use of safer sex supplies. The Gay Barn provides gloves, condoms, and chucks, as well as disinfectant cleaning supplies for surfaces.
Accessibility Info
The space is located in an old industrial building that unfortunately poses a challenge to accessibility. There is no passenger elevator. The steps to the heavy exterior door do not have a handrail; then interior stairs are required (12 steps to the landing and then 11 more, all with handrails). If you would like assistance getting into the building and up to the space, please ask and we will make sure someone is there to meet you.
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We do not require masking at the event but we do test all participants for Covid. Anyone who wants to mask is of course welcome to do so. There is an air filter in the space. There will be hand sanitizer around for everyone to use.
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Please let us know if you have any questions on accessibility and we will do our best to answer.
Food and Drinks
The Gay Barn will provide a spread of sweet and savory snacks to enjoy. There is a cold and hot water dispenser in the space, and tea will be available.
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All the food we provide is vegan with some vegetarian options (gluten-free or other allergen-friendly options available for those who request it).
Alcohol is allowed at the event (BYO), but getting drunk is not. Please use substances responsibly.
Tickets
Tickets are sliding scale $80-$110 (before service and processing fees). We also offer a BIPOC discounted price of $50.
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All guests are vetted (via the form below), and must receive an invitation before paying for their ticket. Spots are limited!​
Fill out the form below to register!
*If the embedded form below is not working, access the Google Form here: https://forms.gle/effyuGKVDdViY7gA7