Upcoming Events
Ho-Down Throw-Down!
Calling all Hog-tying Tops, Boot Scootin' Bottoms, Cattle Prod Daddies, Ponies and Whorses, Lusty Lassos, and Cuntry-luvin' Sluts! Saddle up and boot-strap it on for another round-up of sluts at The Gay Barn's cuntry themed LGBTQ play party!
If Brokeback Mountain makes you squirt like a fountain, then this is the party for you! Ride a horse, spank a cowboy! Grab your bolo, because YOLO! Cruise the saloon, or take some spurs in your moon! ​Featuring curated music all night by sexy cowboy Bro Hoe​
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No effort, no entry. Dress to impress (being naked counts)! You don't have to dress cuntry but turn a look even if you only want to lurk. Bring your own toys! For more information, including party rules, see Sanctuary's event page.
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Sunday September 8th, 8pm-close
Sanctuary Club, 33 NW 9th Ave (enter on 9th)
$15 cash/$17 cc at the door
Dirty Dyke!
Introducing, Dirty Dyke! A new down and dirty dykey arm wrestling and cruising party, from The Gay Barn.
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We all know Billy loves arm wrasslin' - and now that she has her own wrasslin' table, it's on! Wrassle your crush, your friends, your nemesis, to get the glory and win a silly prize.
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​And since this is The Gay Barn, y'all better come ready to cruise! Get out your bandanas for some old school hanky code flagging and cruise with confidence. (If you don't know what the hanky code is, read more here, or here.)
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It's time to get rowdy, get dirty, get wrasslin', and have some classic dyke fun!
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Saturday September 21st, 9pm-close
Crush Bar, 1400 SE Morrison St
$10 cash at the door
Discount for masking and hanky code flagging
Always more coming soon!
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About
The Gay Barn
The Gay Barn is not a place, it is an experience.
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The Gay Barn produces and hosts vetted, private retreat-style play parties for kinky queers, in various beautiful locations across the PNW. We create spaces for dykes and gender expansive homos to get together and get freaky (*no cis men, TERFs, SWERFs, or zesty straights).
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Each retreat play party is a unique combination of the physical environment and the amazing people who attend. But you can always count on hot homos, fun activities, sexy play, beautiful views, delicious homemade meals, and excellent vibes!
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*We are an events production company, not a venue!
The Gay Barn is committed to anti-racism, trans inclusion, body positivity, and accessibility to our events.
Photo by Phoenix Semrau
About the organizers
The Gay Barn began in 2022 with two slutty, married dykes longing for an orgy that was more than just an opportunity for kink.
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We wanted to have an experience that cultivated a sense of joy, playfulness, and authenticity – with all the vibes on point. We leaned into it and started bringing people together for some truly legendary parties.
Billy is a butch dyke with many years' experience working in events production and sound engineering. Emma is a femme lesbian who works as a psychic medium and professional witch. They are both white, cis, and in their late 30's. They met in Portland, Oregon in 2011.
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