Upcoming Events
Filthy Dyke
Kink & Cruising Party
Are you proud to be a FILTHY DYKE?! Then The Gay Barn's favorite kink and cruising party is for YOU!
The vibe is HALLOWEEN if ya nasty! And as always, harnesses, boots, leather, fishnets, latex, mesh, chains, fetish gear, collars, leashes, and kinky looks. But there is no dress code, wear whatever makes you feel hot! *Note: the venue space is mostly private, but the bar area is open to the general public.
Whether you’re cruising for a date, new friends, or just some community vibes, join us for a night of togetherness, dancing, and debauchery with dykes and the queers who love them, featuring:
🔥 Cruising! Flag with a hanky, a toy, or however works for you
🔥 Cruising table for written notes
🔥 Slut walk at 10:30pm! - Billy will help you cruise! Cum on stage, show off your hotness, and Billy will tell the crowd what you’re looking for!
🔥 Impact play! We will have TWO St. Andrew’s crosses and a spanking bench available for use. We will have some impact toys out for use, and you are welcome to bring your own.
🔥 Shadow play area - sponsored by QueerCrush
🔥 Local vendor - tbd
Friday October 9, 9pm-1am
The High Water Mark
6800 NE MLK Jr Blvd
$13 - $20 sliding scale
Our events are exclusively for dykes, lesbians, and dyke-adjacent homos who are 21 and older. TERFs, SWERFs, and zesty straights need not apply. We do not tolerate racism, transphobia, or fatphobia at our events!
If you are a person of color and need a ticket discount code for one of our events, please email us at TheGayBarn@proton.me.
Photo by Mason Rose
About
The Gay Barn
The Gay Barn is not a place, it is an experience.
The Gay Barn produces events and play parties for kinky homos, with an emphasis on creating dyke spaces. (*We are an events production company, not a venue!)
Twice a year (or so), Billy and Emma host vetted, private retreat-style play parties for kinky queers, in various beautiful locations across the PNW. We create spaces for dykes, lesbians, queers and gender expansive homos to get together and get freaky (*no cis men, TERFs, SWERFs, or zesty straights). Each retreat play party is a unique combination of the physical environment and the amazing people who attend. But you can always count on hot homos, fun activities, sexy play, beautiful views, delicious homemade meals, and excellent vibes!
The Gay Barn also produces monthly, quarterly or sporadic events in Portland that never disappoint. Whether it's arm wrestling, a pop-up strip club, or play party, we bring The Gay Barn vibes to local venues! Join our mailing list to stay updated on all our latest events.
The Gay Barn is committed to anti-racism, trans inclusion, body positivity, and accessibility to our events.
About the organizers
The Gay Barn began in 2022 with two slutty, married dykes longing for an orgy that was more than just an opportunity for kink.
We wanted to have an experience that cultivated a sense of joy, playfulness, and authenticity – with all the vibes on point. We leaned into it and started bringing people together for some truly legendary parties. - Billy and Emma