Upcoming Events
Lavender Rain
Queer Strip Club Pop Up
Fight the winter SAD with a butt in your face at the first Lavender Rain of 2026! Cum get cozy, and get lost in some lace. You’ll feel good as new after a lappy or two! It’s hard to frown with babes on the pole. Maybe the sawzall could fill that hole?
Don't miss our queer strip club pop-up, Saturday January 31st at Peacock! Our hot queer dancers at Peacock await you. We’ll be getting cozy, spreading joy and spreading legs all night long.
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There will be plenty of cash on hand for tips! Plus dancer payment handles available. Because tipping strippers is hot!
Saturday 1/31, 9pm-1am(ish)
Peacock, 1400 SE Morrison
$13 cash at the door
Filthy Dyke
Kink & Cruising Party
Thirst no more, Portland! Introducing our new cruising party, Filthy Dyke!
Are you looking for a daddy, or want to show off your collar? Or maybe an impact top to make you squirm and holler? Or how about a sub, or a a sassy little brat? Or perhaps a femme dom with a baseball bat?
Flag with your hankies to speed up the cruise. Bend over for a stranger and take home a bruise! Hard-pack on the dance floor with a switch who can host, or recruit some new friends for an after-party spit roast. Sexy people, pervs, and freaks, THIS is the cruising party you seek!
The vibe is harnesses, boots, leather, fishnets, latex, mesh, chains, fetish gear, collars, leashes, and kinky looks. But there is no dress code, wear whatever makes you feel hot! *Note: the venue space is private, but the bar area is open to the general public.
Filthy Dyke is a monthly kink and cruising party for dykes and the queers who love them. Whether you’re cruising for a date, new friends, or just some community vibes, join us for a night of togetherness, dancing, and debauchery featuring:
🔥 Hanky code cruising & Cruising wall
🔥 Slut walk at 10pm and 11pm! - Billy will help you cruise! Cum on stage, show off your hotness, and Billy will tell the crowd what you’re looking for!
💥 Impact play! We will have our St. Andrew’s cross and spanking bench available for use. We will have some impact toys available, but you are welcome to bring your own.
🔥 Local kinky vendor
🪩On-stage dance floor
Friday, 2/13, 9pm-1am
The High Water Mark
6800 NE MLK
$12 cover, discount for hanky code flagging
Homos Take the Lake
Applications now open!
Always more coming soon!
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About
The Gay Barn
The Gay Barn is not a place, it is an experience.
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The Gay Barn produces events and play parties for kinky homos, with an emphasis on creating dyke spaces. (*We are an events production company, not a venue!)
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Twice a year (or so), Billy and Emma host vetted, private retreat-style play parties for kinky queers, in various beautiful locations across the PNW. We create spaces for dykes, lesbians, queers and gender expansive homos to get together and get freaky (*no cis men, TERFs, SWERFs, or zesty straights). ​Each retreat play party is a unique combination of the physical environment and the amazing people who attend. But you can always count on hot homos, fun activities, sexy play, beautiful views, delicious homemade meals, and excellent vibes!
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​The Gay Barn also produces monthly, quarterly or sporadic events in Portland that never disappoint. Whether it's arm wrestling, a pop-up strip club, or play party, we bring The Gay Barn vibes to local venues! Join our mailing list to stay updated on all our latest events.
The Gay Barn is committed to anti-racism, trans inclusion, body positivity, and accessibility to our events.
About the organizers
The Gay Barn began in 2022 with two slutty, married dykes longing for an orgy that was more than just an opportunity for kink.
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We wanted to have an experience that cultivated a sense of joy, playfulness, and authenticity – with all the vibes on point. We leaned into it and started bringing people together for some truly legendary parties. - Billy and Emma