- Get consent before making physical contact with anyone (sexual or non-sexual). - Before playing, all parties must give enthusiastic consent. Being able to say no is just as important as being able to say yes. Know your yes’s and your boundaries and limits, and communicate them. - Do not pressure, or try to convince anyone to do something they do not give an enthusiastic yes to. - Before playing, check-in with your partner(s) about your STI risk status and the utilization of safer sex materials. - Only take pictures or video with the full consent of all involved. That means making sure no one is in the background without having consented! Additional consent is required to share or post any content outside of with other attendees on the event channel on The Gay Barn’s Discord server. - No bodily fluids on the furniture! Use the chuck pads provided. - If you wear heels, keep them off the furniture. - Clean and wipe down surfaces with a disinfectant wipe after use. - Do not police or question anyone's gender identity or sexual orientation. - We ask that you not engage in play around/containing racism, homophobia, or transphobia. - There is no smoking, incense, art supplies, glitter, food play, messy play, open fire (i.e. no wax), or SILICONE LUBE allowed in the facility. Water-based lube is provided. - No choking or breath play. No piss, scat, or vomit play. - Needle play is allowed for experienced needle enthusiasts. No blood play beyond play piercing. Provide your own sharps container. - Be respectful when watching a scene to not disturb the people playing. Do not interrupt anyone’s scene unless there is a genuine and immediate safety concern. - Should you feel triggered by a scene, please seek care for yourself. If you anticipate that you will need extra emotional support or someone to process your feelings with, make arrangements with a friend who knows you outside of the event that you can call or message if needed. - Please no processing, personal emotional drama, or whining about disappointments allowed in the designated play party spaces. Consider how your energy affects others and respect the intention and vibes of the play space. - If something appears to be unsafe or non-consensual, alert Emma or Billy ASAP - Don’t forget to seek out your enthusiastic yes’s! Do what feels authentically right for you in the moment - and not what you think you should be doing, or what you think other people think you should be doing. Put yourself out there and try to make things happen - but don’t take it personally if this isn’t the right time/place for a certain scene. If you came in with a very specific goal that remains elusive, be open to new possibilities of fun you had not planned for! - This is not a sober event, and substances are welcome, so please use responsibly! The rules of consent always apply, and intoxication negates consent. We trust you all to take care of yourselves, and each other. - Be respectful of the space! This is a working dungeon and we will leave it as good as we find it. Toys you see out are available for play, but do not open any drawers or cabinets or use anything private. If you’re not sure, ask Emma. - Emma is in charge and is ultimately responsible for the space. Follow her directions as well as these rules. Anyone who violates these rules or does not follow directions may be asked to leave. - See Sub Rosa's Facility Use Agreement and Rules at SubRosaPDX.com/facilityuseagreement